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A letter of wishes is a personal document that accompanies your will, providing guidance to your executors and trustees on matters that cannot easily be included in a formal legal document. Use our free UK template to express your preferences clearly.

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LETTER OF WISHES
Private And Non-binding Statement Of Wishes  ·  England And Wales
Margaret Elizabeth Howard
14 Willow Lane, Guildford, Surrey GU1 3SJ
margaret.howard@gmail.com
1 March 2026
I, Margaret Elizabeth Howard, born 15 June 1950, of 14 Willow Lane, Guildford, Surrey GU1 3SJ, write this Letter of Wishes to provide guidance to my executors and trustees (and, so far as appropriate, to my family and those close to me) on how I would wish them to exercise the discretions entrusted to them and to deal with the practical matters set out below.

This Letter is not a will and not a codicil. It is not intended to be legally binding and it does not amend the dispositive terms of my will. It is intended as guidance only and leaves my fiduciaries with their full statutory and fiduciary discretion. It should be read alongside my Last Will and Testament dated 1 March 2024. My executor(s) named in my will are: Richard James Howard (son) and Eleanor Margaret Howard (daughter). My trustee(s) are: Richard James Howard and Mr David Thornton (Harrington and Cole LLP). My solicitor is: Mr David Thornton, Harrington and Cole LLP, 14 High Street, Guildford GU1 3EL. I have written this Letter while of sound mind and of my own free will.
1.
STATUS AND LEGAL EFFECT
This Letter of Wishes is a private, non-binding document. It does not comply with (nor does it need to comply with) section 9 of the Wills Act 1837 and it has no testamentary effect. It does not alter or supplement the dispositive provisions of my will.

My fiduciaries are free to depart from my wishes where, in the exercise of the duty of care imposed by section 1 of the Trustee Act 2000, they consider it proper to do so. They are reminded that, following Re Londonderry's Settlement [1965] Ch 918, they are under no general duty to disclose their reasons for exercising their discretion, but that the court retains a supervisory jurisdiction under Schmidt v Rosewood Trust [2003] UKPC 26 and Re Rabaiotti's 1989 Settlement [2000] WTLR 953 to order disclosure of this Letter where the interests of justice so require.
2.
FUNERAL AND FINAL ARRANGEMENTS
I would like my body to be dealt with by way of a burial, and I would prefer the ceremony to be a religious service.

Specific wishes: I would like the service to be held at St Mary's Parish Church, Guildford. Hymns: Jerusalem and Dear Lord and Father of Mankind. Reading: Psalm 23. No flowers — donations to the British Heart Foundation in lieu.

Pre-paid plan: I have a pre-paid funeral plan in place — Co-op Funeralcare pre-paid plan no. CO-442189. Documents lodged with my solicitor.

Organ donation: I consent to the donation of all of my organs and tissue for transplantation or medical research under the Organ Donation (Deemed Consent) Act 2019 and the Human Tissue Act 2004.

Ashes / final resting place: Not applicable (burial plot pre-paid at Guildford Cemetery, Plot 214).
3.
PERSONAL PROPERTY, DIGITAL ASSETS AND PETS
I would like my executors to have regard to the following wishes concerning my personal chattels and effects (whether or not the subject of a specific legacy in my will). My executors are reminded that, in the absence of a specific bequest, chattels fall into residue and are distributed by them at their discretion having regard to this Letter.

Specific gifts: Gold wristwatch (Omega De Ville) to my son Richard. Steinway upright piano to my daughter Eleanor. First-edition collection of Dickens novels to my grandson Thomas Howard.

Sentimental items: Family photograph albums (black cabinet in the study) to remain with Richard for the family to share. Mother's pearl necklace to Eleanor.

Digital assets: Gmail (margaret.howard@gmail.com), Facebook, Instagram. Password manager: 1Password (master password with solicitor).
Digital accounts and their contents should, where permitted by the provider's terms, be transferred to Richard James Howard (with assistance from the password manager master record held with my solicitor).

Pets: Labrador "Poppy" (microchip 900215000123456, date of birth 3 May 2020) — to be cared for by my daughter Eleanor, who has agreed. My executors are reminded of their responsibilities under the Animal Welfare Act 2006 to ensure the ongoing welfare of any animals in my care. I would like a reasonable sum (suggested £5,000) to be set aside from the residue and applied by my trustees for the care of my pet(s).
4.
GUIDANCE FOR TRUSTEES
Where my will creates a discretionary trust or confers discretion on my trustees (for example as to the timing, identity or amount of distributions), I ask my trustees to have regard to the following guidance. This guidance is not binding and does not fetter the trustees' discretion, but I hope it will assist them.

General guidance: I would like the trustees to prioritise the education and welfare of my grandchildren, and to make distributions to my children only where those primary needs have been met.

Distribution priorities: Priority 1 — Education costs for grandchildren (school fees, university, vocational training). Priority 2 — Housing deposits or housing assistance for my children. Priority 3 — Discretionary distributions for significant life events.

Charitable giving: 10% of my residuary estate is left to the British Heart Foundation and Marie Curie in equal shares. My trustees may also consider further discretionary gifts to Guildford Hospice. My trustees may consider the interaction with the inheritance-tax reduced rate under section 7 of, and Schedule 1A to, the Inheritance Tax Act 1984 (10% or more of the baseline amount to charity).

Vulnerable beneficiaries: My son-in-law James (Eleanor's husband) has a long-term disability and I would ask the trustees to consider whether a disabled person's trust under s.89 IHTA 1984 would be appropriate for any provision for him. My trustees should consider the availability of a disabled person's trust under section 89 of the Inheritance Tax Act 1984 and section 38 of the Finance Act 2005 (income tax treatment).

Investment approach: I would prefer a balanced approach — moderate growth with reasonable capital preservation and a diversified portfolio across asset classes, consistent with the standard investment criteria in sections 4 and 5 of the Trustee Act 2000.

Business succession: My 25% shareholding in Howard Stationery Ltd should be offered first to my son Richard (my business partner) at fair market value as at the date of my death. Business Relief under ss.103-114 IHTA 1984 may be available. My trustees should consider the availability of Business Relief under sections 103-114 of the Inheritance Tax Act 1984 and the two-year ownership requirement.
5.
GUARDIANSHIP, FAMILY MESSAGES AND OTHER WISHES
Education: I would like my grandchildren to attend local state schools unless private education is demonstrably in their best interests. Support for university is important — I would like my trustees to be generous on that front.

Healthcare and end-of-life preferences: I do not wish to receive life-sustaining treatment if there is no reasonable prospect of recovery. A formal Advance Decision to Refuse Treatment (2023) is lodged with my GP and my solicitor, and a Health and Welfare LPA names Richard and Eleanor jointly as my attorneys. I note that a legally binding refusal of medical treatment can only be given by an Advance Decision to Refuse Treatment complying with sections 24-26 of the Mental Capacity Act 2005, and that welfare decisions in my best interests can only be authorised through a Lasting Power of Attorney for Health and Welfare under sections 9-14 of the Mental Capacity Act 2005.

Personal messages: To my children — I could not be more proud of the people you have become. Look after each other and your own children. Life is long; love is longer.

Other wishes: Annual family lunch at The Angel Hotel, Guildford, on the first Sunday of June — I hope the family will continue this.
6.
INHERITANCE PROVISION AND TAX (AWARENESS)
I am aware that, under section 2 of the Inheritance (Provision for Family and Dependants) Act 1975, certain categories of person (including a surviving spouse or civil partner, a cohabitee of two years immediately preceding my death, children, and those being maintained by me) may apply to the court for reasonable financial provision out of my estate. My will and this Letter have been prepared with an appreciation of those rights.

I note that this Letter has no direct effect on the inheritance-tax treatment of my estate under the Inheritance Tax Act 1984 (including the nil-rate band, residence nil-rate band under section 8D, spouse/civil partner exemption under section 18, charitable exemption under section 23 and reduced rate under Schedule 1A). My executors and trustees should seek tax advice as appropriate.
7.
ADMINISTRATION, CONFIDENTIALITY AND STORAGE
I am content for this Letter to be shared with my executors and trustees during my lifetime, and they may discuss its contents with me at any time.

Storage: This Letter is stored with my solicitor alongside my will.

Next review: I intend to review this Letter on or before 1 March 2027.
8.
CLOSING
This Letter of Wishes is made voluntarily and without pressure from any person. It reflects my present wishes, which may change. My executors and trustees should feel free to exercise their own judgement where circumstances have materially changed or where strict adherence to my wishes would not be in the best interests of the beneficiaries.

This Letter is governed by the law of England and Wales.
SIGNED
1 March 2026
Date:
Margaret Elizabeth Howard
Date: ____________________

What Is a Letter of Wishes?

A letter of wishes is an informal document written alongside a will that expresses the testator’s personal preferences, guidance and explanations to their executors, trustees and beneficiaries. It covers matters of a personal nature that a will typically does not address.

Unlike a will, a letter of wishes is not legally binding in England and Wales. However, it carries moral authority and provides valuable context for executors and trustees when making decisions about the estate and its administration.

Common uses include expressing funeral preferences, explaining the reasoning behind specific bequests, providing guidance on the exercise of discretionary trust powers in England and Wales, sharing messages for loved ones and giving practical information about assets and important documents under British estate law.

What's Covered in This Template

Our letter of wishes template helps you communicate everything your executors and family need to know.

Funeral and Burial Wishes

Your preferences for cremation or burial, type of ceremony, music, readings and any specific arrangements.

Personal Messages

Space for heartfelt messages to family members, friends and other loved ones.

Explanation of Bequests

Your reasoning for specific gifts or the way you have divided your estate, to help prevent disputes.

Trust Guidance

Direction for trustees on how to exercise their discretion, including when and how to distribute trust funds.

Guardian Preferences

Guidance on how you would like appointed guardians to raise your children, including education and values.

Pet Care Instructions

Details about your pets and who you would like to care for them, along with any special needs.

Digital Assets

Information about online accounts, digital subscriptions, cryptocurrency and social media profiles.

Important Documents Location

Where to find your will, insurance policies, property deeds, bank statements and other key documents.

Professional Contacts

Details of your solicitor, accountant, financial adviser and other professional contacts.

Charitable Wishes

Any charitable causes or organisations you would like your executors to support from your estate.

How to Create a Letter of Wishes

Follow these steps to write a clear and helpful letter for your executors and loved ones.

  1. 1

    Express Your Funeral Preferences

    Set out your wishes for your funeral or memorial service, including any specific requests about the type of ceremony, location and music.

  2. 2

    Write Personal Messages

    Include any messages you would like to pass on to family members and friends. This is your opportunity to say things that do not belong in a legal document.

  3. 3

    Explain Your Decisions

    Provide context for your estate plan. Explain why you have made particular bequests or why certain people have been included or excluded.

  4. 4

    Provide Practical Information

    List where important documents are kept, share login details for digital assets and provide contact details for your professional advisers.

  5. 5

    Store with Your Will

    Keep the letter with your will and inform your executors of its existence. Unlike a will, it does not need to be witnessed or signed formally.

Legal Considerations

Understanding the legal status of a letter of wishes helps set appropriate expectations.

This template is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Consult a qualified solicitor for advice specific to your situation.

Reviewed for England & Wales law

Not Legally Binding

A UK letter of wishes is not legally binding in England and Wales. British executors and trustees are not obliged to follow it. However, UK courts have recognised that trustees should give serious consideration to a letter of wishes when exercising discretionary powers.

Confidentiality

Unlike a UK will, which becomes a public document after probate is granted in England and Wales, a British letter of wishes remains private. It does not need to be disclosed to beneficiaries unless the executors choose to share it. This privacy makes it suitable for sensitive personal matters.

Updating Your Letter

A UK letter of wishes can be updated at any time without the formalities required for amending a will. It is good British practice to review and update it whenever your circumstances change, such as after a marriage, birth, divorce or change of address.

Relationship with the Will

The UK letter of wishes should complement your will, not contradict it. If there is a conflict between the British will and the letter, the will takes precedence as the legally binding document under English law. Ensure consistency between the two documents.

Frequently Asked Questions

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